I'm having a difficult time figuring out how to interact with BJ's various delusions - should I allow the Alzheimer patient his own reality? Sometimes that's impossible to do, what then? I don't know but working out in the yard, cutting brush and trimming palm trees are a great ways to deal with being upset about it. I'm having some success in securing condom catheters, wheelchair repairs and a new pain management regimen so BJ will have a more comfortable Christmas. ~Jack